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Welcome. I’m a therapist, cancer survivor and former technology executive. My mission is to help my clients achieve the healing, peace and growth they desire.

Adults, adolescents, and couples are all welcome in my therapy practice. I treat a wide variety of mental health conditions (anxiety, depression, substance abuse, trauma etc.) as well as the emotional aspects of chronic health conditions, including chronic pain and cancer. My integrative, holistic approach blends psychodynamic (i.e. talk and attachment-focused) therapy and Mind-body practices, including Somatic Experiencing (SE) and mindfulness.

If you would like to explore how I might be able to support you, please call or email to schedule a free 15 minute consultation.

 

Areas of Practice

Adults

I work with a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, substance abuse, trauma, and grief. Our work together might include demystifying difficult emotions, processing trauma, improving self-esteem, coping with change, strengthening relationships, or increasing motivation and sense of purpose.

My clients are diverse, and I am an ally to all. Female clients appreciate the safe, healing connection with a male therapist. Male clients value my comradery in exploring what it means to be both strong and vulnerable.

Many of my clients are talented, successful professionals. Prior to becoming a therapist, I spent two decades in various corporate roles, including investment banking, managing teams for large digital media companies, and as a startup founder and CEO. This experience has helped me intimately understand and appreciate the challenges that come up (in work and life) when pursuing ambitious goals.

Couples & Families

I’m passionate about helping couples, wherever they are in their relationship. Emphasis is often on alleviating conflict and improving intimacy. I help couples shift the focus away from fault and blame and towards understanding and empathizing with each other’s unique experience. From there, safety and trust builds, creative compromises arise, and intimacy grows. Other topics include sexual intimacy, cultivating more joy, emotionally supporting one another, co-parenting, as well as exploring strengths and alignment -- shared values and goals can feel unclear, can be forgotten, or can shift. Whether you’re seeking to develop greater intimacy, work through an isolated challenge, determine whether to stay together, or move towards peaceful separation, I’m here to support you.

Helping families is another area of work that I care deeply about. Within any family, certain members can find themselves in difficult roles, difficult dynamics may be unconsciously passed down from generation to generation, and significant ruptures can get pushed aside rather than understood and repaired. I help families heal difficult dynamics and find more peaceful and constructive ways to interact. Whether your family includes young children or adult children returning to longstanding difficulties, I find this work deeply rewarding for all involved.

Mindbody (Chronic Pain & Cancer)

In this aspect of my practice, I help people navigate the many layers of chronic illness, including medical trauma, coping with symptoms, lifestyle changes, as well as the potential impact of emotions or stress on the condition itself.

Chronic pain is often stress-induced. This is referred to as TMS (Tension myoneural syndrome) or PPD (Psychophysiologic Disorder) and can include fibromyalgia, migraine attacks, irritable bowel, etc. Working collaboratively with physicians, I help these clients address the emotional underpinnings of these conditions, typically resulting in significant improvement or elimination of the physical symptoms.

Cancer’s origin typically is multi-factorial, and most oncologists affirm (and research supports) the idea that stress contributes to cancer progression. My work in this area is grounded in an intimate understanding of the research as well as my own lengthy struggle with lymphoma over a decade ago. I help clients, whether in treatment or exploring survivorship, deepen into the emotional aspect of the illness, enhance immune function, and improve disease outcomes.

Integrative & Holistic Approach

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Psychodynamic (Talk) therapy

An important aspect of my therapeutic approach focuses on helping clients more deeply understand themselves, their histories, and relationships in a way that is supportive, growth promoting, and non-pathologizing. Much of our psychological experience lies outside of our awareness, in what is referred to as the unconscious or subconscious. We can acquire, beginning very early in life, certain ways of relating to ourselves and others that create suffering and keep us from what we want most, for example peace, satisfaction, joy, loving relationships, or a fulfilling career. I help clients unpack their struggles, connect to deeper and more authentic aspects of themselves, express themselves more fully, and find healing. This integrative process can be transformative and, at the same time, feel like coming home.


MindBody

Bodily sensation plays an integral role in our emotional experience. When emotions feel overwhelming, a common adaptation or coping mechanism is to disconnect from this bodily experience (either broadly or related to certain experiences). When this happens, emotional and/or physiological difficulties often ensue. In my practice, I use a variety of somatic approaches to help my client restore connection to this bodily aspect of their emotional experience. This helps them more deeply understand and move through difficult emotions, open up to greater pleasure, resolve trauma, regulate nervous system response / cope with stressful situations (increased resilience), alleviate stress-induced physiological symptoms, as well as improve immune response. This aspect of my work is anchored in extensive training and personal practice in mindfulness, Somatic Experiencing (SE), and evidence-based approaches to treating Psychophysiologic Disorders (TMS).


Client-centered

In working with me, you’ll experience a mix of warmth, depth, challenge, and, most of all, dedication to the healing and growth you're seeking. I honor the unique experience and needs of each client, I care deeply about the emotional experience and well-being of my clients, and I’m dedicated to safety and trust in the therapeutic relationship. Therapy is a field in which you are free to explore your life. I’ll be with you in that field, as you wish, compassionately offering guidance and support.

A little more about me…

I’m a therapist, cancer survivor, and former technology executive. My youth was split between the Boston Area and New York City, but it’s been 20 years that I’ve had the pleasure of calling California home. My academic background includes an M.A. in Counseling Psychology (emphasis in MFT and Depth Psychology) from Pacifica Graduate Institute, an MBA from UC Berkeley, and a B.S. in Biology from the University of Wisconsin. My training has included two highly regarded training centers in Los Angeles: The Maple Counseling Center and Southern California Counseling Center. Prior to becoming a therapist, I had successful careers in Investment banking (Lehman Brothers) and the technology industry (AOL, Sprint, and Livifi). Over a decade ago, at age 35, I was diagnosed with lymphoma. A four year struggle to survive followed, sparking my own inner journey and eventually the decision to become a therapist and help others. I’m honored to be able to witness the lives of my clients and collaborate on the healing and growth they desire.

 

Contact

Lowell@LowellTherapy.com (424) 218-6505

Tele-therapy (video conferencing) as well as in-person offered.

 

Santa Monica

720 Wilshire Blvd, Suite 204, Santa Monica, CA 90401